Kids Say The Darndest Things! (Christian version) – part 1
Most people that read this blog (all three of you) know that I have 5 kids. It is exciting and rewarding, as well as tiring and challenging at times. One of the great things about kids, is that they say some pretty crazy things at times. They will use words that do not make sense in the way they are using them, or they will make up a word to describe something. “Out of the mouths of babes” refers to a truth that a kid will say, and they usually have no idea what they are saying!
This same thing happens in our spiritual lives as well. I have run across many spiritually immature people that will say things that make me want to smack them in the name of Jesus! I know, that is not a very “spiritual” response either. I do not smack them, I just want to! (That is great progress for me!) The statements that are made are an indicator o just how mature they are as Christ followers. Now, before you think I am picking on new Christians that just do not know any better, I just want to let you know that I am not talking about new Christians. They usually are not the ones that make these statements. It is usually people that have been “Christians” for a long time. You see, many years as a Christ follower do not mean maturity. Ok, let me get to a couple of the statements:
- “I am not being fed.” – News flash: It is your job to feed yourself! Come on, you have been a Christ follower for 20 years and you do not know how to pick up the fork (Bible) and eat? All five of my kids needed help to learn how to eat. They had the desire to eat, but they did not have the ability to feed themselves at first. by the time they reached their first birthday, my kids knew how to pick up the food placed in front of them and do something with it! And now they get up and pretty much find their own food and fill themselves up. Many times immature Christians say this, but what they really mean is that the message is not entertaining enough, it does not “tickle” their ears. Other times, there is a spiritual sickness that zaps your appetite. If you are not being fed, is it because of lack of desire? Is it because of sickness? I have never met a mature Christian that has a problem with being fed. They know how to pick up the Word and be fed. That is our responsibility.
- “What does this church have for me.” – As I read the Scriptures, I never once see where the church is to worry about having things for people. I do see that the church is all about putting people together that have gifts to use for the good of the body. In other words, we ought to turn the question around and ask people, “What do you have for our church.” After all, the gifts that are given to each believer are there to edify the church. Having great ministries is not a bad thing, but it is to be a by-product of people serving and using their gifts for the good of the church.
We will continue this tomorrow!
Joey
I agree with this. I had a moment last week, but sometimes things boil up and cause frustration. I had to pray about it and all was better spiritually, but I know things will work themselves out. Sometimes we don’t see all the inner-workings. I wish everyone had the passion I had for the music ministry. If everyone would grab hold of what they are passionate about and put in 100%, God would bless Glenville enormously. We need to keep working on being at the cutting edge and get out of the comfort zone. My challenge to those that read this blog is to be a leader and when you help in a cause at church, make sure to leave it better than it was before you started. Heck, make is 100 times better……
Ron Amundson
I need to disagree with point 1 a bit. Church is for the edification of believers, and thus its not just an individualistic effort. Growth often occurs through community, whether it be fellowship, challenge, or encouragement. Sure, an individual can seek out the meat, and do quite well… but if the church is not providing it, not only are individuals missing out, but also the church as a whole.
Jason Petermann
Ron, I am not so sure that we do not agree totally. Community to me is huge (vital) in the growth of a believer. What I am referring to is the individual who is dependent on Sunday to get totally fed for the week and take no responsibility for their own daily feeding. It is the churches responsibility to provide opportunities for people’s next steps, but it is up to them to take those steps. That is the difference between being responsible to and responsible for people. A church is responsible to its attenders not for them.